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PRINCE HARRY AND THE YOUNG LADIES

Today Prince Harry is a captain and working in a military unit. Maybe the young ladies passing through his life are not few. But he often remembers the time he was a cadet in Sandhurst Academy and the picture of a young girl he met. It happened that time, somewhere in the Southern Hemisphere, close to Capetown,  and he was impressed by the look and the smile of a young woman.

She was a student at a university in the capital of South Africa. She spent plenty of her free time in volunteer activities  for children in hospitals. This made him think they both had been born under the lucky star of those meant to help, those in need and sorrow.  He was trying even the impossible to be part of those actions, just to meet her. And when it happened he found her busy, he was patient and happy when she comforted him with a smile. In return, she greeted him every time they met with a salute gesture and an innocent childish smile.

Her reserved attitude, mere greetings and smiles, made Harry doubt about himself. He had not revealed his identity to her yet, but she did not seem to care about it. He looked in the mirror critically. He had never been taken for Adonis; he never paid too much importance to his looks. And yet, her indifference bothered him!

But the long waited day has finally arrived. Only that it was too late as the Prince’s schedule required his presence back in the country as soon as possible. She replied to his call with a suave friendship which made him feel he was born under a lucky star. Fairy like moments followed, secret dates, finished with a shy kiss. The few days offered to each other without fear, would put a mark on him for a very long time.

Was it possible under these circumstances for a love to be born? It materializes into wishes and gestures repeated instinctively each time. His fingers would love to gently touch her sweet cheek. His mind is obsessed with the sadness in her eyes when leaving. Could it be love? Could this be the right time and age for a  couple to be formed? A new couple! Continue reading

A Day in the Life of a Royal Cadet

“The Cadet Life of Prince Harry” is an extraordinary story of effort, adjustment, courage and love that underscores the transformative power of military education. By reading it, you understand the happiness of trying to become immortal through what you do. At the end you will realize that the cadet life is a manly road full of hardships, of physical and intellectual efforts, that form you as a man.

There is one chance out of a hundred to get into RMA Sandhurst. Your road has led you here. You are going to learn the job of handling the weapons. You are going to dress the military uniform and you are going to do what you have to do. In fact, that’s what others expect of you! It is time we advanced on in our military career! Become officer cadets and so on.

Every day of a royal cadet is a different one. I know that usually, a cadet is not afraid of facing life. A cadet is anxious to prove himself. The excitement, the dangers, the difficulties of ling marches, carrying tens of pounds of equipment on his back, the problems of a complex life of a man does not intimidate a cadet. But, after ten hours of effort, a tired, but satisfied cadet, is eager to face the new obstacles life at RMA Sandhurst implies.

Prince Harry

New Colours are presented to RMAS. Officer Cadet Wales (Prince Harry) and his intake juniors are inspected.
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The purpose of drills is not related to cultivating his intelligence, but rather to cultivating his spirit. Spirit is sometimes mistaken for the conservation instinct. But they, the ones who are now in Sandhurst, know for sure that a day is going to come that each piece of knowledge, each skill they learned will produce results. This is in fact the goal of this period in the life of a junior cadet. His step becomes steadier, his look is firmer!

Then after a long period of drills, another one arrives: the classes.  The classes, lectures in the theory of tactics, with evaluations at the end of each week enable you to acquire knowledge. Actually small steps in a cadet’s own transformation. They do not mean defeat if they are not perfectly prepared for an exam. But that is not a reason for self inflation either, they hope to one day impresses their instructors with their excellent answers.

A royal cadet compares the classes with a kind of ceremony. Each class has a special significance, and the way in which the participants manifest themselves has something of a ceremony. After each break, the cadets head for the lecture theaters. Some of them talk loudly, others silently check their papers and pens. When the instructor gets in, they stand up at the order. Then the instructor invites them to be seated. He usually starts with a joke or at least a remark that makes them smile.

And as the days go by, the courses become more and more interesting. There are also days in which the courses are followed by drills, and after many hours at the desk, action is welcome. Class by class, the amount of knowledge gets bigger and bigger and the cadets become easier to handle.

You can imagine Prince Harry among the royal cadets. He is hard-working. He tries to assimilate all the knowledge in his teachers’ lectures. He no longer feels insecure, he no longer spends his days in daydreaming. His feelings start to unfold. He becomes more friendly with his colleagues, and more confident. Time is beginning to shape the real character which inhabits the being of Prince Harry. A character towards who he goes with open arms. Every moment of self-discovery gives him a feeling of accomplishment.